New ERA, new culture

thank youWhen you and your team are leading big change, there are inevitably going to be complexities, ambiguities and stresses.

And in all organisations, it is standard for people to face a constant stream of performance reviews, critiques, 360s and more. Unfortunately these can all too easily undermine people’s confidence, energy and relationships.

We have found that the most inspiring leaders – those who engender loyalty, creativity and sustained success – instinctively seek to balance these forces. There are several ways in which they do this but one that stands out is what we call “creating an ERA culture” – an atmosphere characterised by high levels of Encouragement, Recognition and Appreciation.

Research since the 1960s (see Herzberg’s “Hygiene Factors” theory on what motivates people at work, for example) has shown that most people are motivated at least as powerfully by these seemingly soft, intangible things as they are by the promise of more money.

When did you last encourage someone? What difference did it make for them, and indeed you? We often hear how transformative it can be when leaders show their faith in people, and invest time and attention in this way. As for recognition, this is about acknowledging people’s contributions to your shared purpose – publicly where relevant. It does not have to be an award or huge public fanfare – although these are options when appropriate. As for appreciation, this can be as simple as two words – “great report”, “useful meeting” or “delicious lunch”. An adjective and a noun. Add more if you want!

Author Nancy Kline recommends sticking to three guiding principles in offering appreciation – we often use an adaptation of her approach to creating productive “thinking environments” – and her guidance applies well to encouragement and recognition too. She says be:

  • Sincere – above all else, only say what you really mean – there is nothing more counter-productive than people feeling that you are going through the motions but don’t really mean it – and they will usually know the difference.
  • Specific – because then the recipient can really recognise the link between what you are saying and something that they have done; not least, this encourages them to do more of it.
  • Succinct – don’t blather on for ages or people really will start rolling their eyes!

And we would add 3 A’s of receiving ERA. Many people find it hard to receive compliments and good news. One client described his mother-in-law, a Scottish lady with whom he is fortunate to have a good relationship, as responding to any compliment with a swipe of the hand and “Och shite!” First she bats it away – in NLP terms preventing it from getting through her defences – and then she belittles it verbally.

Many of us have a version of this, so we suggest that you:

  • Acknowledge – that what the other person is saying is true for them, so probably contains some truth about you
  • Allow – the words to enter your system: hear them, let them in and feel the positive emotions they bring up for you – and for your relationship with the other person, and
  • Accept – because then this intangible stuff, being like water, can douse the fires caused by the stresses you face, and feed the seeds of your confidence, creativity and generosity.

The effects can be magic – better relationships, more resilience and, paradoxically, one client recently told us that a colleague had shown a greater willingness to critique himself. Research suggests you aim for a 5:1 ratio – five parts positive feedback to one part critique. Some people need even more positive stuff; few thrive on less, even those who say they don’t need it.

Let us know how you get on – or be in touch if you would like a copy of our one page guide to circulate in your team…

By | 2015-01-26T11:41:41+00:00 January 26th, 2015|Leadership of the week, Our thinking|0 Comments

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